Bible Verses About Family Disputes

For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.

For the son dishonoureth the father, the daughter riseth up against her mother, the daughter in law against her mother in law; a man’s enemies are the men of his own house.

And a man’s foes shall be they of his own household.

Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

For God commanded, saying, Honour thy father and mother: and, He that curseth father or mother, let him die the death.

But brother goeth to law with brother, and that before the unbelievers.

The beginning of strife is as when one letteth out water: therefore leave off contention, before it be meddled with.

Cast out the scorner, and contention shall go out; yea, strife and reproach shall cease.

Dare any of you, having a matter against another, go to law before the unjust, and not before the saints?

For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;

Grudge not one against another, brethren, lest ye be condemned: behold, the judge standeth before the door.

Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.

For Moses said, Honour thy father and thy mother; and, Whoso curseth father or mother, let him die the death:

For it hath been declared unto me of you, my brethren, by them which are of the house of Chloe, that there are contentions among you.

Thou sittest and speakest against thy brother; thou slanderest thine own mother’s son.

If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them:

But avoid foolish questions, and genealogies, and contentions, and strivings about the law; for they are unprofitable and vain.

There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother.

Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.

For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.

From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members?

Plead with your mother, plead: for she is not my wife, neither am I her husband: let her therefore put away her whoredoms out of her sight, and her adulteries from between her breasts;

Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.

Rebuke not an elder, but intreat him as a father; and the younger men as brethren;

Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him.

But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.

Now the brother shall betray the brother to death, and the father the son; and children shall rise up against their parents, and shall cause them to be put to death.

A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city: and their contentions are like the bars of a castle.

Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.

Whoso curseth his father or his mother, his lamp shall be put out in obscure darkness.

But if any man seem to be contentious, we have no such custom, neither the churches of God.

And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

He that wasteth his father, and chaseth away his mother, is a son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach.

Deliver me, I pray thee, from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esau: for I fear him, lest he will come and smite me, and the mother with the children.

And tarry with him a few days, until thy brother’s fury turn away;

Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:

And if a house be divided against itself, that house cannot stand.

And Jephthah said unto the elders of Gilead, Did not ye hate me, and expel me out of my father’s house? and why are ye come unto me now when ye are in distress?

Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart: thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbour, and not suffer sin upon him.

And the brother shall deliver up the brother to death, and the father the child: and the children shall rise up against their parents, and cause them to be put to death.